The past two weeks have been rough weeks for Dad. There has been a significant change in his overall health which has caused some concern. Dad has become increasingly weak....not able to stand for long periods of times, his walking isn't completely stable, and at times, doesn't even have the strength to shave or shampoo his hair. Last week was the first time where Dad decided he couldn't go to work....he's been home ever since and spends most of his day sleeping.
While his appetite has been decreasing over the past few months, more recently, Dad's appetite is almost non-existent. He isn't hungry and at times, already feels full with an empty stomach. Dad is thin and he continues to lose a lot of weight...sometimes daily. He is down to 160 lbs.
With a recent visit to the doctor, they have given him some medicine that we hope will increase his appetite and ultimately, could help him gain additional strength. One specific prayer request is that this medicine will work and help him re-gain an appetite and his energy.
Mom and Dad are also in the beginning process of discussing palliative home care options with the doctors and are waiting to hear from the palliative team to learn more about how that may help Dad with these recent health changes. Pray for discernment in this area.
As I reflect on this "journey" that Dad and the family have been through, I'm reminded of how often the Lord has answered our many prayers. We asked for more time...and more time we have been given. This past weekend, the entire family gathered to spend time with Dad. Mom asked the following question to me, Jason and Sarah: "What were the things that Dad did over the years to create such a great relationship with you?" It was a great time because we all were able to affirm Dad as the great parent he has been. The key word was that he was "Present". As I get older, I understand how important and significant that is and was and how blessed I am to have received his loving presence. Dad was present in all things....whether it was to cheer us on at a sporting or music event, to eat at the dinner table and have family conversations, to one on one attention. Dad was definitely a "parent" in that he disciplined us and helped guide us as we went through life. As we have all gotten older, Dad has continued to remain present in our life....those of you know that know Dad personally....you know that he's one of the best cheerleaders out there. I'm sure you've experience him being "present" as well. In addition to Dad always being "present", Dad showed us love....he verbally communicated to each of how much he loves us and how proud he is of us. He verbally communicated to us that he would be "present" and that he loves us so. For me, Dad was a great example of what our Heavenly Father does for us....He's been present for us and wants to see us succeed. He loves us. I'm so thankful that my Heavenly Father and earthly father have modeled that love for me.
We are so thankful that many of you have joined our family in being prayer warriors for dad. He's a fighter and we all know that. He's going to continue to fight until God decides He wants him home. Thank you for your continued prayers. We love each of you!
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Lifting you all up to the Father.
You have done an incredible job of honoring your father and helping those of us who have not had the opportunity of knowing to feel like we do.
What a wonderful father.
What a wonderful daughter who loves him very much.
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